Here’s a bit of a dilemma. What if you’ve been seeing this amazing girl, and you’re starting to hang out and even get a bit more serious.
Let’s also say that she happens to actually drive you crazy, and the mere thought of her is enough to turn you on at times.
That’s all well and good – as long as you do value her as a person before anything else of course – but it’s understandable to worry what she’s going to think if you happen to end up with erections during any sort of contact or something along those lines.
If you’re becoming erect merely due to any contact – even the likes of hugs – it’s not necessarily unprecedented but it may be too much.
There’s a chance she’ll be flattered, but if she isn’t in a sexual mood at the time it could easily be unwelcome.
The fact of the matter, more extreme cases like that really just need to be talked about if they’re a problem.
Otherwise? If you’re becoming erect while making out, well, that’s probably a lot more flattering and welcome in that moment.
Maybe she won’t be interested in anything further, or maybe she will, but it’ll more than likely be okay if you’re so obviously excited by being with her.
There are no real rules here; every couple is different! Anything you’re super concerned about is always best addressed directly with your partner.
There are ways to rid pain such as with pills or surgery, but a natural way to rid pain is with an orgasm. Oxytocin is released. It is a peptide that acts as a natural pain reducer. Having an orgasm can, therefore, rid your body of menstrual cramps, headaches, backaches, and more.
2. They Improve Your Health
Staying healthy, particularly as you age, should be a number one priority for humans. Having an orgasm can elevate a woman’s DHEA or dehydroepiandrosterone levels that contribute to her health. This helps the skin; it helps with brain function; it helps with cardiovascular disease and more.
That’s not a part of adulthood I ever suspected would happen when I was a kid, or even a younger adult. In my twenties, I would never think about trying to improve my sexual skills
Just thinking about it would mean admitting I was not good enough in the bedroom just as I was, and that was unthinkable as a kid. My hormones were still raging then, so sex was about quantity, not quality.
I still focus on quantity to a degree, as I enjoy sex with my wife and we work to keep the sex life alive. But, since we are monogamous, things do get stale and predictable.
I decided to start studying fingering techniques to learn new ways to satisfy her, or at least improve my own contribution to our activities.
I’m so glad the Internet is around.
Thirty or forty years ago, I’m not sure I could even discuss this openly, much less, have body of knowledge where I could learn fingering techniques or how to finger a woman. My wife actually loves me looking up sexual content online!