I’ve put in serious time learning how to finger a woman
That’s not a part of adulthood I ever suspected would happen when I was a kid, or even a younger adult. In my twenties, I would never think about trying to improve my sexual skills
Just thinking about it would mean admitting I was not good enough in the bedroom just as I was, and that was unthinkable as a kid. My hormones were still raging then, so sex was about quantity, not quality.
I still focus on quantity to a degree, as I enjoy sex with my wife and we work to keep the sex life alive. But, since we are monogamous, things do get stale and predictable.
I decided to start studying fingering techniques to learn new ways to satisfy her, or at least improve my own contribution to our activities.
I’m so glad the Internet is around.
Thirty or forty years ago, I’m not sure I could even discuss this openly, much less, have body of knowledge where I could learn fingering techniques or how to finger a woman. My wife actually loves me looking up sexual content online!