Here’s a bit of a dilemma. What if you’ve been seeing this amazing girl, and you’re starting to hang out and even get a bit more serious.
Let’s also say that she happens to actually drive you crazy, and the mere thought of her is enough to turn you on at times.
That’s all well and good – as long as you do value her as a person before anything else of course – but it’s understandable to worry what she’s going to think if you happen to end up with erections during any sort of contact or something along those lines.
If you’re becoming erect merely due to any contact – even the likes of hugs – it’s not necessarily unprecedented but it may be too much.
There’s a chance she’ll be flattered, but if she isn’t in a sexual mood at the time it could easily be unwelcome.
The fact of the matter, more extreme cases like that really just need to be talked about if they’re a problem.
Otherwise? If you’re becoming erect while making out, well, that’s probably a lot more flattering and welcome in that moment.
Maybe she won’t be interested in anything further, or maybe she will, but it’ll more than likely be okay if you’re so obviously excited by being with her.
There are no real rules here; every couple is different! Anything you’re super concerned about is always best addressed directly with your partner.